Saturday, August 13, 2011

Should I even consider a russian bride?

Ok I can totally understand, in part with what you are talking about. Growing up people called me the white, black girl. But things are not so hard for women. I met my husband when I was only 19 and he loved me for me. He wasn't the white guy or the latino guy that my family just knew I was going to bring home. But he was a very y, good looking black man. I think at times people get so stuck in stereotypes that they think because I act this way I have to marry a man or woman this color. Because I wasn't the "stereotypical black woman" people umed I was not going to marry a black man. My mom was black/asian so she possessed some of the submissive qualities asian women possess. And I too shared some of those qualities. So people were like you won't be able to be with a black man. I think you should be a little more patient and wait for that one person that is right for you. Because there is someone out there for you. Once you get married there will be hard times and it is easier to stick things through when you have a spouse that you love and you don't want to lose. If its about not being lonely then go ahead and get a russian bride. But if its about finding that one person you can spend the rest of your life with, then wait for her. Maybe even try a dating company such as Harmony. But don't settle.

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